Homily: Ascension Of The Lord by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

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by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

GOSPEL: MARK 16:15-20
Jesus said to his disciples:
“Go into the whole world
and proclaim the gospel to every creature.
Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved;
whoever does not believe will be condemned.
These signs will accompany those who believe:
in my name, they will drive out demons,
they will speak new languages.
They will pick up serpents with their hands,
and if they drink any deadly thing, it will not harm them.
They will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover.”

So then the Lord Jesus, after he spoke to them,
was taken up into heaven
and took his seat at the right hand of God.
But they went forth and preached everywhere,
while the Lord worked with them
and confirmed the word through accompanying signs.


Here in Canada, we celebrate the Solemnity of the Ascension of the Lord this Sunday. Traditionally, the observance of the Ascension of the Lord is on Thursday, the 40th day after Easter. However, for pastoral reasons, the Church has obtained permission from the Vatican to move its observance on Sunday 43 days after Easter, for some countries like Canada. It is a Sunday before Pentecost. To celebrate it on Sunday actually, helps set the mood for our reflection in preparation for Pentecost.

Certainly, by its name itself, what comes to our mind as we reflect on this Sunday’s Liturgy is the fact that our Lord Jesus was lifted up to heaven. It must be a wonderful sightseeing Jesus ascended to heaven. His disciples were indeed so privilege having witnessed such spectacular event. But our reflection should not only be focused on Jesus’ leaving the earthly presence.

The observance of the Ascension of the Lord has a more profound meaning than just reflecting on the fact that Jesus ascended into heaven. In last Sunday’s Gospel text, the scene was set during the Last Supper wherein Jesus was saying his so-called Farewell Discourse. There was a tinge of sadness in Jesus’ words since he was actually saying goodbye to his apostles. He knew that his hour has come. He was fully aware of his impending death and suffering. But instead of thinking about himself, he was thinking of his apostles. He was giving them the strength that they may be able to bear the imminent suffering. Jesus offered them the gift of peace. He said let your hearts not be troubled. And he promised them that he would send an Advocate that would remind them of all that he has done. Jesus knew that the hour will come for him to depart from this world and go to the Father. His earthly mission is complete. This is the time for him to go back to the Father. And therefore today we celebrate this event of the Ascension. But what is it’s significance and how it is relevant to us today?

First, Ascension may mean the end of Jesus’ earthly mission. But it doesn’t mean just an end but rather it means more of a beginning. It is the beginning of the new chapter of the saving work which Jesus began. Now, it’s time for the apostles to continue this work and pass it on eventually to the Church and its members. In the first reading, Acts 1:8, Jesus admonished his disciples to continue his mission – “and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”

Second, Ascension means to glorify the Son of God. Jesus’ mission is fulfilled. The Son of God is triumphant in the offering of his life on the cross. Like to a Lamb, Jesus willingly sacrifices his life for the salvation of the world. Now is the time to give back his heavenly glory. The Father is well pleased and He exalted Jesus. This is best described in the second reading from the letter to the Ephesians, “God put this power to work in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly places…”

Third, now that Jesus is exalted by the Father, it allows him to prepare a place for us. John 14:2, “In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.”

As we reflect on the meaning of the Ascension of the Lord, the question now is – how is this relevant to us today?

First, It means that as followers and as children of God, our task now is to continue the mission of spreading the good news of the Kingdom of God. The mission is huge. There are times that we may feel unworthy. We should not worry – ‘let your hearts not be troubled.’ We only have to put our complete trust in Jesus. Jesus may not be with us physically but he never leave us orphans. He wants us to be able to carry this mission out and so he promised – “Behold, I am with you always until the end of the age.” He sent the Holy Spirit to empower us so that we be credible witnesses to the Gospel.

Second, the Ascension of the Lord tells us that we are but pilgrims here on earth and our final destination is heaven. After doing the task of spreading the Good News and that we remain faithful until the end, then heaven is our reward. Jesus wants us to succeed. He wants to gather his flock once again in his Kingdom.

The Apostles were here spreading the Good News of our Salvation 2000 years ago. The mission has been passed on to us. Now it is our turn to do the same. It is indeed a great responsibility. But let us do our part with great faith and great love. But do not forget to always ask the Holy Spirit for guidance, inspiration, and strength. Be bold…be courageous in making the Love of Jesus known throughout the whole world.


HOMILY: Epiphany Of The Lord by Rev.Fr.Allen Baclor Abadines


by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines
GOSPEL: Matthew 2:1-12

After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi[a] from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”
When King Herod heard this he was disturbed, and all Jerusalem with him. When he had called together all the people’s chief priests and teachers of the law, he asked them where the Messiah was to be born. “In Bethlehem in Judea,” they replied, “for this is what the prophet has written:
“‘But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah,
are by no means least among the rulers of Judah;
for out of you will come a ruler
who will shepherd my people Israel.’[b]”
Then Herod called the Magi secretly and found out from them the exact time the star had appeared. He sent them to Bethlehem and said, “Go and search carefully for the child. As soon as you find him, report to me, so that I too may go and worship him.”
After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route.
The Gospel Of The Lord/ Praise To You Lord, Jesus Christ.
Today we celebrate the Solemnity of the Epiphany of the Lord. Epiphany comes from the Greek word which literally means appearance or manifestation. The name suggests that something was revealed. Something was manifested to bring enlightenment. God manifested himself in the person of Jesus.It is an important celebration in a sense that God has revealed himself to mankind. In a way, we now have a tangible understanding of who God is, in the person of Jesus.

Some people considered the story of the Magi most fascinating considering the events surrounding the nativity of our Lord Jesus. It tells us of their arduous journey in search of a child, the guidance of a star and their offering of the gifts made the story indeed fascinating. But for me, the story is profound, highly symbolical and Theological.

Who were the magi? Very little is known about them. Biblical Scholars claimed they were not kings. They were most probably astrologers or wise men. We do not know how many of them really. People assumed that they were three corresponding to the gifts they offered the baby, Jesus. We do not exactly know the country of their origin except the fact that they were from the East. They were non-Jewish people. Their being non-Jewish is highly symbolical too… It reveals to us the universality of salvation that is being offered. The Magi represent the people of the world. They represent each one of us which means that salvation is for everyone.

What about the gifts? What was in the gifts? What made them significant in the story? It was a strange gift for a child. They offered him gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Some people might think that the gifts were thoughtless and impractical. Normally, when we think of giving something for a newly born child, we probably consider something for the immediate use of the baby like clothing, baby foods or blankets. However, most Spiritual writers claimed that those gifts were actually appropriate considering the purpose of the gifts i.e. they came to worship. They recognized Jesus to be not an ordinary Child hence the gift to be extraordinary. We read in Matthew’s Gospel that Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, ‘where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star in the east and have come to worship him.’” The gifts, therefore, were meant to honor, adore and give praise to the baby Jesus. These gifts represent spiritual symbols – Gold symbolizes Jesus Kingship. Gold is precious and expensive and fit for a king.Frankincense symbolizes his priestly role. Incense was used in the Temple by priests. The smoke is like prayers that are lifted up to heaven. That sweet smelling smoke was meant to honor God. It is like our offering of praises and thanksgiving to God. And Myrrh, a prefiguring of Jesus’ death and embalming. Myrrh is an expensive perfume used to anoint the body of deceased loved ones. The fact that it would cost them to possess it only to be used to the body of the deceased loved one will show how much they honor and give importance to the departed.

The Church Father Origen said that Gold, as to a King, Myrrh as to the one who was mortal and incense, as to a God. The gifts, therefore, are Theological in nature. It tells us that Christ is King, human and divine.

The encounter with King Herod also tells us something. Herod was an evil king who killed his wife, his mother-in-law, his two brothers-in-law and murdered even his three children on suspicion that they were planning something against him. It is not surprising why the news about the birth of Jesus served as a threat to him. He wanted the child Jesus dead even to the extent of sacrificing innocent lives.

Now, these incidents tell us about the reality that many people will hate Jesus and will do anything to destroy him. But there are also many who will become faithful to him and will even sacrifice their lives for that love.

We learned a lot of lessons from the Magi.The Magi offered Jesus the best that they could offer. Let us also do the same. What gift could we offer him?

First, the gift of a renewed and intimate relationship with Him.How could we achieve this? By knowing him deeply. Reading and contemplating on the Words of God in the Scripture could help us know God intimately.

Second the gift of loving one’s neighbor., i.e. establishing a better relationship with other people.Learning to forgive those who have hurt us. Reconcile with them. Heal broken relationship. It’s the gift of love towards the neighbor.

Third, the gift of oneself. The gift of sincere repentance. Let us acknowledge our own sinfulness. Avail of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Reconcile with God. It is a gift of the purity of our hearts.

The Magi offered the Child Jesus the best that they could give. As for me, it was not gold, frankincense, and myrrh that gave more meaning and value to the gifts. It was actually the gift of their time and self that made their gifts more precious and special. Likewise, we could turn ourselves to be a precious gift when we give ourselves wholeheartedly in the service of God and of our fellowmen.

The journey of the Magi prefigures our own journey. Like them, we are on an arduous journey here on earth. Our destiny is to be with our Lord Jesus. In the end, heaven will be our reward. At the end of our journey may we be able to say, just like in the words of St. Paul (2 Timothy 4:7) “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”

HOMILY: 1st Sunday Of Advent (A) by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

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GOSPEL REFLECTION: First Sunday of Advent (B)
by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

Readings: First Reading- Isaiah 63:16b-17; 64:1,3-8
Responsorial Psalm: Restore us, O God, let your face shine, that we may be saved.
Second Reading: 1 Corinthians 1:3-9

GOSPEL: MARK 13:33-37

Jesus said to his disciples: “Beware, keep alert; for you do not know when the time will come.
“It is like a man going on a journey, when he leaves home and put his slaves in charge, each with a particular task, and commands the doorkeeper to be on the watch. Therefore, keep awake for you do not know when the master of the house will come, in the evening, or at midnight, or at cockcrow, or at dawn, or else he may find you asleep when he comes suddenly.
“And what I say to you I say to all: keep awake.”



Story: A famous football coach once rebuked an overconfident player who said that their team would win because it had the will to win. “Don’t fool yourself,” said the coach. “The will to win is not worth a nickel unless you have the will to prepare.”

What the coach meant was that – Success in any endeavor in life depends upon how much preparation we make. It is not enough that we have the will to succeed, for everything requires hard work and preparation. Like, a professional singer needs to rehearse to be assured of a good performance. A student, no matter how intelligent he may be, needs to study his lesson. An actor needs to read and study his script first before taking center stage. Indeed, preparation is important in our practical life as well as spiritual life. Christ exhorts us in today’s Gospel message to be always prepared. And it comes as a warning as he said:” Beware, keep alert; for you do not know when the time will come.”
The call to be spiritually prepared is of utmost importance as we enter a new Liturgical year. Advent is the beginning of our new spiritual journey. It invites us to embark on a journey as we reflect on the life of Jesus anew. Traditionally, Advent is considered a preparation for the coming of Christ.
The word Advent originates from the Latin word “Adventus” meaning “coming.” I call Advent season as a celebration of the past, present, and future.A celebration of the Past because the ‘first coming’ had already taken place. It happened 2,000 years ago on the first Christmas – the birth of our Lord Jesus. It is a celebration of the Present because we also experience Jesus’ daily coming into our life – like in the celebration of the Eucharist where we encounter Jesus in the form of Bread and Wine. We also experience His presence in Scripture as we contemplate his words. We encounter His presence in one another as we gather in faith and in prayer.”For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in their midst.” (Matthew 18:20) And it is also a celebration of the Future because the second coming is yet to come. It will be at the end of time. Jesus came, who will come, and who constantly comes.
The celebration of Advent would make sense if we understand the importance and the need to prepare, to be vigilant. To highlight his message of preparedness and vigilance, Jesus relates to us in today’s Gospel the parable of the master who went on a journey and puts his slaves in charge. With this admonition to be always “on your guard, stay awake, because you never know when the time will come. (Mark 13:33) Preparation is what the life of discipleship is all about, before, during and after the season of Advent. Life, therefore, should be a constant observance of the Advent season. Saint John Paul 11 says “The whole of our life must be an ‘Advent’, a vigilant of the final coming of Christ.” So what must we do? To answer this question, let me share with you another story that we may ponder upon.

Story (from The Next 500 Stories by Frank Mihalic, SVD)
A young man dreamt that he had walked into a store where an angel was standing behind the counter. He hastily asked the angel, “What do you sell in this store?”
“Anything. You name it,” said the angel.
So the young man began, saying, “I would like to order the following; a democratic government in Chile, an end to all the wars in the world, a better deal for the marginal nations, the removal of all squatter settlements in South America.”
At this point, the angel interrupted and said, “Excuse me, young man, you did not understand me correctly. We don’t sell fruits and finished products in this store. We sell only seeds.”

Advent is a time of expectancy for a special and wonderful event -i.e. the coming of Christ. While we wait for this final event, there is a need for us to plant the seed, that we may benefit in the harvest time. Our life here on earth is but a preparation of our life in heaven.Are we making the necessary preparation? Have we planted the seeds of goodness and holiness? If so, then this expectancy should bring us joy rather than fear. Only then that we recognize that God’s judgment should be looked upon not of condemnation but of moments of mercy and grace. John 3:17 “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”


HOMILY: 33rd Sunday In Ordinary Time (A) by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

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GOSPEL REFLECTION: Thirty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time (A)
by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

GOSPEL: Matthew 25:14-30

Jesus spoke this parable to his disciples: “For it is as if a man, going on a journey, summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them; to one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he went away.
The one who had received the five talents went off at once and traded with them, and made five more talents. In the same way, the one who had the two talents made two more talents. But the one who had received the one talent went off and dug a hole in the ground and hid his master’s money.
After a long time, the master of those slaves came and settled accounts with them. Then the one who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five more talents, saying,’Master, you handed over to me five talents; see, I have made five more talents.’ His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and trustworthy slave; you have been trustworthy in a few things, I will put you in charge of many things; enter into the joy of your master.’
“And the one with two talents also came forward, saying, ‘Master, you handed over to me two talents, see, I have made two more talents. His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and trustworthy slave; you have been trustworthy in a few things, I will put you in charge of many things; enter into the joy of your master.’
“Then the one who had received the one talent also came forward saying, ‘Master, I knew that you were a harsh man, reaping where you did not sow, and gathering where you did not scatter seed; so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here you have what is yours.’
“But his master replied, ‘You wicked and lazy slave! You knew, did you, that I reap where I did not sow, and gather where I did not scatter? Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and on my return, I would have received what was my own with interest. So take the talent from him, and give it to the one with the ten talents. For to all those who have, more will be given, and they will have an abundance; but from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away. As for this worthless slave, throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'”


Story: Three pelicans were flying to a popular lake. As they traveled, they were each lost in thought.
The first pelican thought to himself, “I love my beak. It’s magnificent. No other bird has a beak quite like mine. When I get to the lake, I am going to parade along the bank, showing off my beautiful beak and all of the other birds will be jealous.
The second pelican thought to himself, “I love my beak and I need to protect it. I can’t afford for it to get damaged, so I am going to only catch small fish in shallow waters. I know that I can do more, but it is too risky.”
The third pelican thought to himself, “I love my beak. It is a beauty and I am going to push the limits and get the most out of it. I am going to become the best catcher of fish in the lake. I’ve been given this beak for a reason, so I am going to work hard and catch the biggest fish out there. (Source unknown)
I like this story. It is teaching us some realities of life. Like, each one of us has received talents, blessings, and potentials for a reason. Not to brag about it and to show off just like the first pelican.Nor to hide it just like the second pelican. But to fully develop and make use of them to their maximum capacity just like what the third pelican did. Each one of us is blessed with so many gifts that we may use to share and make this world a better place.
The Gospel of this Sunday has a similar message. It relates to us a simple story so easy to understand yet it has a powerful message with eternal relevance. Anyone can relate to its significance. Jesus tells the story of a man who gives talents to three of his servants. The first servant received five talents. The second servant received two talents. And the third servant received one talent. The first and the second servant went out at once and used the money to buy and trade things and ended up making even more money. But the third one didn’t want to take the risk out of fear of losing the money he was given that he went and buried it to keep it safe.It happened that upon the return of the master, they were summoned for an accounting. As what was expected the first and the second servant were praised by the master. But he finds to his dismay that the third slave to whom he entrusted one talent had simply buried the wealth and had garnered neither gain nor interest. And for that reason, the third servant was punished.
Like many of Jesus’ parables, he tells this one, in particular, to teach us an important lesson i.e. God doesn’t want us to hide our gifts and blessings. Instead, He wants us to make use of them to the fullest. God created each of us with special gifts and He expects us to use those gifts for the purpose for which he gave them to us. This is the challenge of today’s Gospel. Our Lord Jesus is telling us that in the end, the Master will come for an accounting. There should be no excuse for us to come with a report that would not be pleasing to the Master. Our Lord intends that we multiply, increase, expand our gifts for our own good and the good of others. And to help build the Kingdom of God.
So what holds the people back to show, develop and share their talents. Let me give you some reasons:
1) Insecurity – Some people may feel inferior to other people.They are always intimidated by people who are more talented.
2) Lack of confidence – They thought that their talents are not good enough.They do not see their importance. They would rather keep their talents to themselves rather than to use and share them with others. They forgot that those are gifts from God and therefore precious to God.
3) Fear of rejection. A lot of people are afraid of being rejected, ridiculed and or laughed at by others. But we have to first and foremost appreciate ourselves in order for us to be appreciated by others. People who are successful started out from a humble beginning, but what separates them from the rest is their boldness and readiness to take the risk. Sir Thomas Fowell Buxton said, “With ordinary talents and extraordinary perseverance, all things are attainable.” You may have the skills and abilities. You may not feel it particularly great, but it may be better than you think. If you don’t use it, you lose it! Talents that are not used are like Sundial in the shade.
Let me end my reflection with another inspiring story. It is a story of a man who had real talent.
This particular man played piano in a bar. He was a good piano player. People came out just to hear him play. But one night a customer wanted him to sing a particular song. The pianist declined. But the customer was persistent. He talked to the bartender: “I am tired of listening to the piano. I want that guy to sing.” The bartender shouted across the room to the piano player. “Hey, buddy! If you want to get paid sing the song! The customers are asking you to sing.”
So he did. He sang a song. A jazz piano player who had not sung much in public, sang a song that changed his career, for nobody had ever heard “Sweet Lorraine” sung the way it was sung that night by a pianist – his name was Nat King Cole!
All along he had talent hidden and undiscovered.
Luke 11:33- “No one lights a lamp and puts it in a place where it will be hidden, or under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, so that those who come in may see the light.”

HOMILY: 31st Sunday In Ordinary Time (A) by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

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GOSPEL REFLECTION: 31st Sunday In Ordinary Time (A)
A Warning Against Hypocrisy
by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines
GOSPEL: Matthew 23:1-12

1 Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples: 2 “The teachers of the law and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. 3 So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach. 4 They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.

5 “Everything they do is done for people to see: They make their phylacteries[a] wide and the tassels on their garments long; 6 they love the place of honor at banquets and the most important seats in the synagogues; 7 they love to be greeted with respect in the marketplaces and to be called ‘Rabbi’ by others.

8 “But you are not to be called ‘Rabbi,’ for you have one Teacher, and you are all brothers. 9 And do not call anyone on earth ‘father,’ for you have one Father, and he is in heaven. 10 Nor are you to be called instructors, for you have one Instructor, the Messiah. 11 The greatest among you will be your servant. 12 For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.


Hypocrisy is what really ticked Jesus off. This is the reason why he oftentimes criticized the Scribes and Pharisees. He characterized them as hypocrites, self-righteous, judgmental and blind guides. These are the people whose holiness is but an outside appearance but inside they are full of malice, lies and evil deeds. Jesus said in today’s Gospel text, “Do whatever the scribes and Pharisees teach you and follow it, but do not do as they do, for they do not practice what they teach.” Jesus seemed to be more compassionate to sinners like the prostitutes and tax collectors who are open to repentance, contrition and conversion than to self-righteous and hypocrites religious leaders and experts of the law during his time.
Of course, Jesus didn’t hate anyone. But if Jesus is to choose one between the sinners and self-righteous people, certainly he would prefer the sinners. In fact, the religious leaders of his time accused him of associating with them. He ate and drank with them and even visited their homes. Jesus rationalized in the Gospel of Matthew 9:12 “Healthy people do not need a doctor, sick people do.” The Scribes and Pharisees because of their being self-righteous, it wouldn’t easy for them to acknowledge their flaws. They do not see the need for repentance and conversion. They were so blinded that they cannot see their need for a Messiah. It is true that only those who acknowledge that they are sick, who are in need of healing.
What is hypocrisy? It is a pretense. It is like someone who claimed to have a good moral standard yet his action does not conform.
The word “hypocrite” derives originally from the Greek “hypokrites’ which means “an actor” or a “stage player.” Therefore, a hypocrite is some playing a role of a somebody who is far from his real self. The Scribes and Pharisees are the perfect examples of what hypocrisy is. They boast about following the hundreds of laws by wearing phylacteries and tassels in their robes. But everything is all about that. It’s about showing off their holiness. It was a display of holiness guided by pride and evil deeds.
We are all in danger of becoming hypocrites simply because we are all sinners. That’s the bad news! But the good news is that we are also capable of repentance, as well as being holy. Apparently, Jesus is like telling us that it is better to acknowledge our sinfulness and weaknesses than to be dishonest about it. Only when we accept our shortcomings that we can be humble enough to beg for forgiveness and be open to change.

Homily:23rd Sunday In Ordinary Time (A) by Rev.Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

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GOSPEL REFLECTION (23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time – A)
by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

GOSPEL (Matthew 18:15-20) On Fraternal Correction

Jesus spoke to his disciples, “If your brother or sister sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If he or she listens to you, you have regained your brother or sister. But if the person does not listen, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If the person refuses to listen to them, tell it to the Church; and if that person refuses to listen even to the Church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
“Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”



(Story) There’s a Spanish story of a father and son who had become estranged. The son ran away, and the father set off to find him. He searched for months to no avail. Finally, in a last desperate effort to find him, the father put an ad in a Madrid newspaper. The ad read: Dear Paco, meet me in front of this newspaper office at noon on Saturday. All is forgiven. I love you. Your Father. On Saturday 800 Pacos showed up, looking for forgiveness and love from their fathers. (Source unknown)

I find this short story poignant. It tells us a reality that there are so many people out there in need of understanding, forgiveness, and love. There are so many people who are hurting. There are so many broken relationships.
There is no such thing as perfect relationships simply because there are no perfect people. We all have our flaws. We all commit mistakes. In any relationship – be it family relationships, relationships between friends or relationships among people in society, at our work place, at school and even in the Church, there will always be conflicts. No matter how much people try to have peace all the time – arguments, misunderstandings, disagreements, and even fights will always transpire along the way even when you least expect it. Having relationship issues, therefore, are inevitable. Good relationships don’t just happen. It takes a lot of hard work to make relationships really work. It takes a lot of patience, humility and the will for people to truly want to build a good relationship.Yes, there are no perfect relationships, it’s how you deal with it that makes a relationship perfect. It means, therefore that a successful relationship is not impossible despite our differences and idiosyncrasies.

But how can we have a successful relationship? Well. this is what this Sunday’s Gospel text is trying to teach us. Jesus in today’s Gospel is teaching us a lesson on what to do every time some issues occur in any relationship. Jesus is teaching us a lesson on fraternal correction. Jesus said, “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.” But how do we correct one another? How do we encourage one another to do what is right? As for me, the very first thing to do is to look into our hearts, analyze our actions like whose fault is it really? So many times that we cannot admit our faults. Because of pride at times instead of accepting our own mistakes, we would do anything within our means to prove others wrong. Most of the times, we think we are always right. It is easier for us to judge other people. And even if we realized we’re wrong, apologizing wouldn’t be easy to do. That creates more tensions and more conflicts. Have this always in mind – Something is more important than just being always right and i.e. being compassionate. It’s actually a choice whether we wanna be always right or we wanna be always compassionate.

Since conflicts are inevitable in any relationship. Allow me to share with you some guidelines we should consider in order for us to be able to contribute to creating a successful relationship:

First, Humility. Pope Francis spoke of the importance of humility in order to dialogue with a brother or a sister. Fraternal correction, therefore, should be done in the spirit of humility. A humble person is never judgmental.We can learn a lot of lessons from Pope Francis who said: “Who am I to judge?” Judge not lest we are judged! There is one journey that we as Christians have to make i.e. a journey from pride to humility, from self-centered to Christ-centered.

Second, Forgiveness. Learn to forgive. Find ways to be reconciled and reach out. Pope Francis said that whenever there’s conflict look for peace as soon as possible. Always find a solution. He emphasized the need to build bridges rather than walls, like the one that divided Berlin for so many years. The Pope further says that “even in our heart there is the chance to become the Berlin wall to others. I am afraid of these walls that grow every day and foster resentment. And hate.”

Third, Love. We always have to find ways to love. In any conflict, find ways to love. Even if we feel oppressed, find ways to love. Even if we are hurt or we feel something unjust is done to us, we should find ways to love. True love means not to give up on each other. This would be our identity as Christians i.e LOVE! They’ll know we are Christians by our love. We opted to love, as Christ as our model, despite the fact that in so many cases it is never easy to do so. This is God’s greatest commandment that we should love our fellow men – sinner or saint. But who says loving is easy? Finding love especially to the unlovable is never easy.It is easier said than done. Even among members of our own family. Mother Teresa once said “It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve hunger than to relieve the loneliness and pain of someone unloved in our own home. Bring love into your home for this is where our love for each other must start.”

One time, I blessed a couple in their 50th Wedding Anniversary. The husband shared the many challenges in their married life.He said that part of their married life is the many fights, and arguments but they followed the lesson they learned from a passage from the Ephesians 4:26 which says “If you are angry let it be without sin, the sun must not go down on your wrath.” There’s wisdom in it, whenever conflict occurs, do not wait till tomorrow to patch up things

Homily:21st Sunday In Ordinary Time (A) by Rev. Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

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by Rev.Fr. Allen Baclor Abadines

GOSPEL: MATTHEW 16:13-20 Peter’s Confession About Jesus
When Jesus went into the region of Caesarea Philippi he asked his disciples, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist, others Elijah, still others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” He said to them, “But who do you say that I am? Simon Peter said in reply, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Jesus said to him in reply, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah. For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my heavenly Father. And so I say to you, you are Peter, and upon this rock, I will build my church, and the gates of the netherworld shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys to the Kingdom of heaven. Whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. Then he strictly ordered his disciples to tell no one that he was the Messiah.



There are the so called “Terms of endearment.” These are words or phrases used to address or describe a particular person especially a someone related to us. They are also used to animals, pets most specially or to objects for which the speaker feels love or affection. That is why a husband or a wife may call the other like honey, sugar, cupcakes etc. Or some parents call their children like sunshine, butterfly etc. We also do that to our friends, depending of course, how close we are to them. We do not get insulted no matter what they call us like ‘my little monkey’ or a ‘noisy bumblebee’ We don’t get mad if a loved one calls us names, in fact, we find it sweet for we know that it’s their way of expressing their affection.But if a someone whom we do not know calls us names like ‘monkey’, we get mad – we say, ‘how dare you to call me a monkey?’ That’s how to start a fight. They are no longer ‘terms of endearment’ but name calling or insult.

Our Lord Jesus in today’s Gospel did the same to one of his disciples – Simon. He said, “You are Peter, and upon this rock, I will build my church.” Peter means rock. Calling Peter “Rock” is done on purpose. Jesus compared Peter to a “rock.” What comes to mind when we say rock? Of course, we know that rock is something solid, something hard and firm.The question is – Do you think ‘rock’ is a perfect description of Simon Peter? Maybe not! And Jesus was aware of it. Remember in Matthew 26:31-35 – When Jesus was talking about his passion and how everyone will abandon him, Peter said to Jesus “Even if all are made to stumble because of you. I will never be made to stumble. Jesus said to him, Assuredly, I say to you that this night before the rooster crows, you will deny me three times. Peter said to him, Even if I have to die with you, I will not deny you.” Jesus was right. When it was time for Peter to prove his fidelity to Jesus, He failed! He was asked by some woman during the trial of Jesus – Are you one of them? Peter said, “I do not know the man!” He denied Jesus not once, not twice but three times. Despite Peter’s weaknesses, he was still given the honor of the keys of the Kingdom – “And I say to you, you are Peter, and upon this rock, I will build my church…I will give you the keys to the kingdom of heaven.” It was because Jesus knew that Peter’s betrayal was just temporary. What is important to Jesus was that he repented. His sorrowful reaction was proof of his repentance. In the end, Peter was able to prove his fidelity to Jesus. He was loyal to his mission of spreading the Good News and eventually offered his life for the Gospel.

Earlier in the Gospel, Jesus asked this question to his disciples – “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” The scene was Caesarea Philippi. This region actually became the center of worship of false gods for thousand of years. This maybe the reason why our Lord asked such question in that place. He wanted to know how people regarded him. And they replied, some say John the Baptist, others Elijah, still others Jeremiah or one of the prophets. And Jesus’s reaction was – Alright! that’s how they perceived of me, and then he asked a crucial question – but who do you say that I am? Now Jesus was asking them their own personal perception of him. Simon Peter said in reply, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” Peter, of course, was right but still, there was a need for him to clarify his understanding of what a Messiah is. For When Jesus was talking about his suffering and death he got a reaction from no less than Peter himself. We can relate to Peter. Jesus was like asking us the same question, “Who do you say that I am?” To most of us, because of our knowledge of Theology and because of our Catechism, we will rightly say that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, our Savior, and Lord. But our knowledge of Theology is not enough for Jesus will demand of us to dig deeper into our hearts – Personally! Who do you say that I am? When I was teaching Catechism I asked my students the same question. Who is Jesus to them? I got several different answers – Jesus is a brother, a father, a friend, a someone you can rely on. There was one student who can not perceive Jesus as a Father. Apparently, the kid was abused by his father physically and verbally. He can not perceive in Jesus as a loving father because that was not his experience of his own father. Well, many times we hear within ourselves the same question that Jesus addressed his disciples. He is asking us – “Who am I for you?” What would be our response? We come to know Jesus in our daily encounter with him, each day, especially in dealing with one another. Our task, therefore, is to make Jesus known and alive in our day to day life.
Our good example and good deeds will reflect the image of Jesus to our fellowmen.Getting to know Jesus personally is a journey. A journey that we cannot make alone.In Matthew 16:13-28, it says, “The Holy Spirit, whom I shall send to you, will teach you all things and will make you understand all that I have taught you.” Let us, therefore, ask the Holy Spirit for guidance that we may come to know Jesus deeply.